Wow - can I just start by saying "bravo" and slow clap leading up to
thundering applause. You. ARE. Amazing. Look at all you've done
when you feel like the pits - girl if that doesn't deserve a Standing O then
Ya, being a girl really sucks sometimes - and when you've been bleeding down there
for 6 weeks and have to get on a bc it REALLY sucks.
Whew - those drs LIED to you when they said local bc has less effect on
the body than systemic bc. lies lies lies. Yes - yes on every level - I feel those hormone induced headaches and those mood swings - you're a rock star
for not killing anyone. Vertigo sucks. Having
something up your you-know-what for three weeks is terrible - then you
bleed for one - and then it's back to three... And the other side effects - yep, it's awful - I hear ya.
Depression - it is seriously a nasty part of your life. Ya I thought
it would go away/get better too but the truth seems to be you have
depression, now what? Well you walk this awful road as best as you can.
Take it one day at a time. One moment at a time. And remember when you feel like doing something extreme, you really don't look good in stripes - so stay cool -
be chill - lock yourself in your bedroom - and just breathe.
Sheeh. Ya you weren't expecting to look THAT huge and fat in your
photos. Yearly pictures all started out as a way to honor and document
your journey but boy it's depressing when your journey makes you fat.
Let's just start here - some of those angles were not flattering. Low to high = no bueno. High to
low = muy bien.
Also, ya you've gained weight. It's not all your fault - you're on meds
that sedate you and make you not feel like exercising. You have little energy - I hear you - and with what energy you do have why - WHY - would
you spend it on exercise when you have a ton to do??? Yes, you
need to eat better. Yes, you need to exercise. But it's not all your
fault and I KNOW you can only put out so many "fires" in your life with what you
have. One day, therapy and Dr Huse and all the other things that are taking
up your time, won't. And then you can work on these things. A time for
everything and everything in it's time. It sucks being fat and feeling
incredibly ugly - thinking that you being fat is why no guys ask you out
While you're thinking of all these down sides to being in this
body and living this life, you have to admit you are pretty
spectacular too. First of all - your eyes are amazing. They tell deep
stories of suffering but can change to sparkles as you laugh until tears
run down. Your hair is beautiful and you can pull of many different
colors. Girl, your boobs are the bomb! Seriously - people pay
to have what genetics gave you. You are hilarious! You have an
amazing sense of humor. You can make people of all ages laugh - that's a
unique talent. You have exceptional taste in music and loving animated
movies will make you forever young. Your suffering makes you accessible
to many people in different walks of life. How cool is that? One day you'll be well -
whole - healed.
Ya, this is
not the life you wanted or expected but it's ok. You can do this. You
can win. You can conquer. You can succeed. I'm watching. I'm seeing. I'm
With Love and Respect,